April 16, 2008
Dear beloved family & friends:
So much has happened: the good, the bad and the sad. Last week was the typical teaching with lots of prep time to teach from the BOM, Pearl of
Great Price and Old Testament. Last Friday night, we attended a fun class
where two YSA's taught dance classes in prep for a stake dance planned for late May, with a 2nd class planned for just weeks prior to the dance. We
noticed as theYSA's were learning the Salsa and also Bollywood dancing
the common expressions on their faces were big smiles, and there were
a lot of good healthy laughs when they "messed up". The next morning
we received a really early phone call from Jade, a returned missionary of
six months informing us of a really serious accident of 3 of the YSA's who
had been at the dance class the previous night. The driver had been one of
the YSA's we had attended the Rugby game with the previous Friday night. He and the girl he was dating, were unhurt: the two in the back seat were each injured. Sarah, had a broken collar with two breaks and is set to have surgery this morning. Eddie, one of our Institute students, is probably an inch taller than Ryan and Zach and apparently that height was a hindrance,
when the car started to flip. The driver, Jeremy, had lost control on some gravel out in the country and as he did the best he could to regain control and manoeuvred between trees and poles, the car went down a steep embankment, flipping over several times before landing on it's side. The two girls were hanging by their seat belts, but were able to release themselves. The driver, as the least hurt, pulled or assisted getting all the rest out, in case the cars gas tank was ruptured. Sarah, with the broken collar bon, assisted getting Eddie out thru the back window and only then
realized she had pain in her left shoulder. Eddie had a head injury and was
bleeding profusely. Jeremy found his cell phone, but was our of range and had to scale a large fence and run up an incline to find phone service and was able to call 000 for emergency help, which apparently arrived in approximately 15-20 minutes. Tamina, who had been in the front seat in the accident, now held Eddie's head in her lap until the paramedics arrived and the four of them were taken to the Canberra hospital, which is just a few blocks from where our flat is. As the four young people were waiting for emergency help, one of them prayed and the others sang primary songs.
That Saturday morning, after receiving the call, Dad called the sister-in-law
of Eddie and volunteered to help as needed and she said they had been there for hours and could we prepare some breakfast foods and of course we
we were happy to do that; then we took some lunch foods over also.
We visited with Sarah, broken collar bone and all, and her greatest concern
was unselfishly, for Eddie. Eddie was in his second surgery when we arrived and went into a 3rd, which was supposed to last 7 hours, but had to be cut short after a couple of hours as he had so much pressure on the brain, it was 26 to 27, whereas the normal is 10. He was put in a drug induced comma to see if that count can come down to closer to normal range and we were text messaged yesterday, that he was hovering between 10 to 13. We were actually allowed to see him, although he is comatose. It was amazing to me, his body did not appear to have even a scratch and frankly he looked healthy and vibrant; except for his head, where he definitely suffered the most trauma. His male nurse had said most people with the type of head injury he had never make it to the hospital; he also said, he is a very seriously injured and ill man.
Well, not to be more depressing and frankly on a positive note; we have seen
the goodness and love of the YSA's kick into place as the YSA president called us early after hearing to ask us to fast for Eddie & Sarah and the others not apparently hurt physically, but hurting in other ways; and he texted to all YSA's to fast as a group. Sunday, after the fast; a fast breaker supper was held and we attended. We have seen the most beautiful rallying around these young people by their peers and heard the most beautiful prayers and have heard the most heartfelt concerns. Food for the family has continued to be brought to the hospital. There are five adult children in the Catton family, with Eddie being the youngest; they sadly lost their mother at
an early age and the oldest brother has held a lot of responsibility of raising
them. The older brother, approx. age 30, gave Eddie an anointing & blessing after he came out of the 3rd surgery, as he couldn't get near him any
sooner until the doctors finished the 3rd surgery.
Mitch, the oldest said his brother had just been in another accident within the past several weeks, when he was alone and hit and killed a kangaroo,
which then flew back partially into the windshield, bruised his face and took out his car. Kangaroos on the road are a real danger here. Sort of like in the states, for those who hit deer. I believe we have already known of two
YSA's hit kangaroos and pretty well took out their cars; that is two in the first 9 months we've been here. The kangaroos seem to be most dangerous
around twilight. It isn't that they (the kangaroos) are aggressive; they just end up being in the way/ on the road at the wrong time. Over the many months we've been here, we have been warned several times and have frankly seen a fair number of kangaroos dead on the side of the road. Anyway, Mitch said he thought it was a wake-up call for Eddie that he should have been on his mission. The brother just older than Eddie is on a
mission and was called within hours and said he would pray for his brother,
but that he is so close to finishing that he wouldn't be coming back. He finishes in early June and I believe he is in the Perth, AU mission. One of
the neat things the oldest brother has done is to give a blessing to the driver,
who has been friends with his brother for years and previously a flat mate to
even him, prior to his marriage just this past November, 2007. The family does not want the driver, Jeremy, who they all know so well to carry guilt.
Although, Jeremy is obviously weighted down with sorrow seeing his friend
now fighting for his life.
While at family home evening this past Monday, our Institute president, who is very spiritual, returned missionary, etc. said he felt Eddie was invincible
after surviving both accidents. I wouldn't disagree out loud, but I thought hmmm, none of us is/ are invincible. Life can be snuffed out in a moment
It will take a lot of miracles to see Eddie come back to full health; but we already see some miracles thru the tender mercies of the Lord, I am certain
are in response to all the beautiful prayers of these deeply spiritual YSA's.
They have such spiritual depth and at the same time, they are such fun loving spirits. It is a privilege to see them serve and focus on serving. I have said it previously, that this stake, which is a great stake albeit it is a small stake and hard to staff for that reason; this stake would not function as well if these same YSA's were not in fairly key positions, especially pertaining to the YM/ YW.
Well, we took a bit of a breather, went over to visit the family of Eddie at the hospital and were told he has been taken off the drugs and is somewhat feisty in as much as he pulled out the leads for the ECG and had to have his left arm restrained; although he is still in a coma. It sure seems like another small miracle has occurred to follow those that have already occurred. Oh, the wonders of youth, coupled with mighty and ongoing prayers.
We had an interesting Institute class last eveining, where many of the YSA's commented such positive and loving remarks about their friend and interesting enough, our lesson was on the setbacks and problems that Moses experienced trying to get the Pharaoh of Egypt to let go of the Israelites who were in bondage and the fact that before they were allowed to leave or more accurately almost paid to leave after all the plagues that the Lord allowed to come upon the Egyptians, including the last one which was the loss of all their first born males/ sons. At that time they were allowed to spoil the Egyptians and take of their gold, silver, clothing, etc. However, the point was when Moses first went before the Pharaoh and requested the Israelites to leave, they were forced to work even harder and had even harder lives, before they ultimately were allowed their freedom. Sort of like so many of our lives, we taste the bitter, so that when the sweet comes along, we know it is SWEET.
This week, we still have district missionary meeting and I am hoping to bake the missionaries caramel sweet rolls, as this is transfer time and many of them may end up leaving. They always love, cookies, brownies, etc, but they have commented about the homemade cinnamon/caramel sticky rolls being their favourite. Sister Wei from China reminded me, she eats two of them and doesn't usually brownies or otherwise such sweet, sweet things.
Saturday morning, Dad & I have seminary in-service @ 8 AM and Sunday evening we are each speaking on subjects pertaining to the family.
We do manage to keep busy, busy busy most of the time and frankly we get a bit worn out being out as many nights as we are, but we shuffle along.
While at the hospital now just a couple of hours ago, while also sitting with
the parents of Sarah, who was going to have a cat scan of her head, before
her collar bone surgery supposedly set for today (oh the wonders of socialized medicine). Sarah's Mother commented as she saw Dad walking, what is wrong with his leg? I said he will probably need a hip replacement.
She is needing knee surgery herself and knows I have a bum knee. I said, hopefully Dad can take care of me, when I have my knee surgery and then I can turn around and take care of him, when he has hip surgery. Gee, aren't you all saying nursing home for Mom & Dad?, even sooner then you thought. Don't make any plans for us for nursing homes for us yet; I can still remember the comforting( parting) words of our stake president. If you should die over there/ now here, the church will ship you back.
The weather is cooling here as yours start to warm up, but practically always there is sunshine; and oh how we love that.
Well we are half way+ thru this mission; and again although we miss you all
so immensely; we continue to pray that we can in ever so small ways uplift, encourage and edify these wonderful YSA's. Can I say it is easy, not really; can I say it is worthwhile, yes. But, oh, how I wish for greater ease, then I am reminded it was never, ever easy for HIM!
Want you all to know, even though there are decisions I made that maybe I wish I might have made differently; again, I have never, ever, ever, ever
regretted the decision to be baptized a member of this great church and to
have the Saviour's restored gospel in our lives. Along with that, in Family
Home evening this past Monday, one of the YSA's said he is afraid of being
a parent and having a child. Well, you know me; I just had to jump in and say, with parenting you will have your highest highs and lots of stuff in the middle and some of your lowest lows, but I wouldn't have missed those highs for anything in the world. How you all bless our lives, you are our highest highs. Hope this finds you all well.
Love ya all, Mom, Grandma, etc. aka sis mac
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