MOM--Sincere Condolences

Hi beloved family, sleep seems far away from me at this moment of time, so just thought I'd share part of my insomnia. The death of this relative, Aunt Wilma, 98, no less is the last from my Dad's generation. Still have Aunt Leona, the youngest brother of my Mom, who now lives in Florida. Hope this finds you all well and hopefully I can fall back to sleep. Love, Mom/ grandma mac aka sis mac From: mac9pcom@msn. com To: diannemahoney@ tds.net Subject: RE: MOM Date: Thu, 14 Aug 2008 11:41:06 -0500 Dear Dianne: It is Friday, August 15th here in Australia. I woke up at 1:00 AM,  this morning and for some reason decided to check our e-mail; which I don't normally do in the middle of the night like this. So sorry to hear about the gentle passing of your most special Mom. How she blessed your lives and you & your siblings blessed her life; and as well, she (and your Daddy) blessed the lives of so many. I tried to go back to sleep, but a flood of memories filled my mind. One that came first, was when Frank & I had the privilege of living with Grandma Bormann when we were 10 and 11 and us traveling up to your home and taking a train to Seattle, Washington to visit Aunt Bea and Uncle Harold and then down to California to visit Aunt Corrine and Uncle Vic. That was a summer I will never forget and in fact I always had it in the back of my mind to take my own grandchildren on an adventurous train trip as she did for us. When you are a child, you don't always have enough wisdom or life experiences to know what a sacrifice of time that was for Grandma Bormann to have had Frank and I with here for the year before our Dad then taking us up to Wisconsin to live with his third wife for our junior and high school years. Years ago, I knew that Grandma Bormann's loving, kind care of us showed just what a queen of a woman she was. Part of our train trip started at your home and I  have such sweet memories of your parents and your family. What a special summer that was and it pretty much started at your home. We were so grateful, as adults, to attend a special celebration for your parents 60th or was it 70th? wedding anniversary in Minnesota. It was at a park with a indoor shelter where we had a nice picnic style lunch. I so remember your beautiful Mom, as we all stood around in one really large circle to pray and your Mom so lovingly acknowledged all who were there and the distances many had traveled and then I believe she a knowleged those of her grandchildren and family that couldn't be there to celebrate with them. I believe after speaking for a few minutes and the prayer of blessing on the food was about to happen, your Daddy said he had something to say. How you were all blessed with some of the most remarkable parents out there. There are so many other things I can say, but I will finish with the very last time, I was in Estherville with my husband, now several years back. I had called and found out many of my Mom's nieces and nephews would be that one magical weekend as were most of you from my Dad's side also. Your Mom had told me, just about every day as she drove past the cemetery on the way to her home, she would think of my Mom as she was buried there; which so touched my heart. Your Mom & Dad are two of the finest of the many fine relatives that blessed my life. That weekend, I naturally visited the graves of both of my parents and I remember saying to my husband as we drove away from Estherville, that I knew that would be probably be my last time to visit there and it was as if, I was mourning my great childhood memories there. On my Mom's side, only her youngest brother, Uncle Bob's wife, Aunt Leona lived there in Estherville at the same time of that visit and shortly after that Aunt Leona moved to Florida to be near one of their two sons. Please convey my condolences and love to your siblings and families and I want to acknowledge my love for your beloved parents and for all of you. May you all feel of the tender mercies of the Lord and be comforted at this time in your lives. Love, Pat, Doug and family of nine children and (husbands and wives) and 32 beautiful grandchildren with the 33rd on the way. We have now served 13 months of our 18 month mission in Australia working among the teenage and older youth of Australia, ages 18-31+. We have enjoyed (mostly, that is ) our time with these most loving and inclusive young people; but I am looking forward to returning to our own wonderful grandchildren, aged less than a year and up to a 20 year old. This has truly been an adventure here, also.   From: diannemahoney@ tds.net To: mac9pcom@msn. com Subject: MOM Date: Thu, 14 Aug 2008 10:56:33 -0500 Dear Patsy and family,   My Mom died Tuesday morniing in her sleep.  The funeral is Saturday, I am just walking out the door to go to Estherville now.  Wake is Friday, 5 - 8.  Know you will be with us in spirit, and I will fill you in on the details when I return, which will probably be in a week or so.   She was 98, and such a special person.   Love, Dianne

News from Australia

Dear family and friends; Well we just got some news. I guess we will be the last of the American Senior CES missionaries to Australia for a while. The church has changed its policy in that seminary and institute teachers will be called by the stake president  and not assigned by CES. On top of this the Australian area and the New Zealand areas have been combined and the Australian area offices in Sydney have been closed and moved to the New Zealand office complex in Hamilton New Zealand. The area will be called the Pacific Area.  The new Pacific Area president has said that the CES missionaries, if called, must be called from local people but not from the same stake. This country needs to step up to the plate and start running more of its own programs. In leadership meetings with the President Keith Hilbig of the Area Presidency,  said that only 7 % of the Australian young men are going on fulltime missions and in stake conference our stake president said only 30  %  of the stake's 1500 members attend sacrament meeting.  Home teaching is less than 20 %.   There have been at least 5-6  American Senior CES missionary couples that have been in Canberra since the late 90's.Although they & we  have been  fairly successful ,  I think that the expense to both the church and the senior missionaries has been too much.  Our mission president's wife  told us that the Sydney mission's  are  the 3rd most expensive missions in the church behind The London, and Tokyo missions.   I guess they will be looking for Australian  Senior couples  to live at home and serve a nearby stake by being Seminary supervisors and Institute teachers.    I noticed on lds.org., that the church is still looking for 14 senior missionary couples for Australia that will either be prostylizing  missionaries or mission office missionaries. So that demand has not diminished but the problem is that there is not enough senior couples that want to go on foreign missions.         All is busy and well   Love Elder Mac

The Cell Phone Analogy

Dear MacPherson teenagers, and others,   I thought I'd share with you this analogy I came up with  for one of our recent Institute classes. I first asked the students these questions about their cell phones(called mobile phones here). How many of you carry your cell phones almost everywhere you go? How many of you check your cell phones many times a day for messages on them? How many of you pull out your cell phones when you have nothing to do and use them? How many of you tell others what you have just learned from your cell phones? How many of you panic if you can't find your cell phone?   The answers where almost unanimous that they did all of the above!   I them asked the very same questions, except I substituted SCRIPTURES for cell phone? Very few hands were raised! I smiled and said, "Is there an important message here about where our hearts are?   I pointed our that in medieval times many regular members of the Catholic Church that were caught having or reading the bible would be imprisoned, excommunicated, tied to a stake, had their bibles  tied to and hung around their necks, and burned at the stake. Many good people died this way. We take for granted the PRIVILIGE  we have to read and study the scriptures whenever we want to.      I wonder what kind of people we would be like if we used our scriptures a much as we use our cell phone?                                                        Love Elder Mac

More down under details

Dear Friends and Family                                                               7/27/08 The first week back to  school has come &  gone. Things are going good and time is flying by even for Mom. We have a new student from England who is studying  at Canberra University for a year. Her name is Anna Fletcher. She was born a member but her parents divorced about 8 years ago and she went inactive. She has only been active again for 10 months. We have a possible new convert at Australian National University. Her name is Jennie. She is Australian, but has just come back from Germany where she lived for about a year. She is in her 4 year  of Uni., and going for a law degree. We received an e-mail from an Elder and Sister Tingey, who are apparently missionaries in Germany and they referred us to her.  We e-mailed her of our institute class and she appeared the end of our 1st class at ANU and said she would attend in the future.  All the other students we had last semester are back. Last Friday we went to ANU to listen to a final concert  recital of one of the YSA. Kylie Loveland is an accomplished concert pianist and is graduating with an equivalent of a Master's degree in piano. She had a back up of a string sextet and played in a concert theater where the BYU Young Ambassadors performed last May. It holds about 2000 people.  The performance was outstanding. She leaves next Sat.  for a month of further performance and study in Israel and then a few weeks in Austria. It is incredible how much traveling the YSA do.  Two have bought round the world airline tickets that allow them to make 6 – 8 stops in certain cities as they circle the globe.  They have 2 to 3 months to circle the globe.  2 YSA took off for Japan for 2 weeks last Saturday. Two others just returned from a 3 & ½ week trip to Vietnam, Cambodia, and Thailand.  One just got back from the Torres Straits near New Guinea.  3 others have either just come back from the US or are still there. They save their money and then literally blow it all on travel.   We went to the Sydney Temple last Saturday and took some YSA with us. The petrol (gas) is about $6.20 a gallon(sold in liters here) and it costs about $70 in petrol  to make the 600 Kilometer( 360 mile)  round  trip. We take our car and I have to do all the driving. We leave at 6:30 AM, do 1 or 2 temple sessions and then return, and get home at 5PM the same day.  It is a 600 k. round trip where close 600,000 words were spoken by the 3 women who rode with us. The male YSA  and I spoke about 60 words. Even though this is the equivalent of your January, the trees are budding and flowering here. Sydney is even milder and you see  flowers, even at this of the year,  they are  everywhere.  As I have said before, many of the plants are entirely unique to Australia.  All is well here and we miss you all!                          Love Dad Elder Mac

Paddocks of Wallabies

This e-mail has been approved and recommended for all future missionaries. That means anyone who reads this!   Dear family,                                                                                         7/18/08 Well today we saw a mob of about 30-40 Wallabies (small species of kangaroos) grazing in a cow pasture( called a paddock here) right next to a suburb of Canberra. One of our YSA is on holiday for 3 weeks up in Cape York, which is as far north as you can get in Australia, and is driving a 4 wheel drive jeep type vehicle. He called back on his mobile phone that he had hit and killed 3 kangaroos on his way up. Some of these kangaroos can weight up 400 lbs. Luckily he has "Roo bar" or some times called a "Bull bar" on the front of his car. This is a curved steel bar round in shape about 3 inches in diameter and chrome plated that is mounted in the front of many vehicles here. They save the vehicle from a lot of damage.  We just fed two of our elders and they said that they saw mob of kangaroos on a hill, 2 days ago, right in Canberra about 1 mile from our flat.   Australians love their holidays ( we call them vacations). Almost everybody gets 4 weeks paid vacation each year even if you are part time worker. Men and women  get paid maternity leave and most get paid sick  leave that can be as long as 5 weeks per year. On top of that, Australia has more national holidays then almost any other country - about 12 per year. There is even a holiday for Good Friday and Easter Monday and Melbourne Cup Day – a horse race that is similar to our Kentucky Derby.  We had our opening social for the 2nd semester Institute class this last Tuesday. We had it in one of the chapels because it is cold out. We played volleyball , had a karaoke machine which they call "Sing- Star" and then I had a Old Testament treasure hunt that was similar to my Easter basket hunts . They had to use their scriptures to look up OT verses to find the next clue. I. E. Exodus 17:6 "thou shall smite the rock and there shall come water out of it, that  the people may drink"  This clue led them to the chapel's water fountain where the next clue was.  There were 4 teams and each had 5 different clues that lead them to the treasure of a bag of Solomon's gold coins. (Chocolate, shaped like coins and covered with gold foil.) They really get into it, get very competitive, and really seem to enjoy it. We then had 16 Dominos pizzas and hot fudge sundaes. We closed the social with a testimony meeting in the primary room.  The other 2 Institute socials are outside in the autumn and summer ( remember we are in winter)  and we have a testimony meeting at the end of these socials around a campfire.  So I put about 20 chairs in a circle and borrowed 4 split logs from a member and cut out flames from red construction paper and taped them to the logs and then put a flashlight in the middle that shone through the red paper. I then turned the lights off. The effect was great and we had a great testimony meeting.   Next week all the universities start up again so it is back to the usual schedule of 4 to 5 classes a week.  Hope all is well with all of you.               Love Elder Mac   P.S.  We went through a yet another mission transfer(companionships are split up and missionaries are transferred into different locations and paired up with a different elder or sister)    and I STILL have the same companion! I guess the mission president thinks we work well together. Now all I have to do is convince my companion of this.

Missionary Story

Burr -  Send blankets and hot water bottles!  It dipped down to 29 degrees today.   Missionary Story from Down Under, Last Monday we went to Family Home Evening with the YSA as we usually do. That night we had 2 full time missionaries there with their investigator with them. One was Elder Vhang  the 1st missionary ever from Burma and other Elder Kallaraga  from the South Pacific Island nation  of Kiribati or also known as the Gilbert Islands. He is black like the Fijians are. The investigator was Ong  who was a Burmese man in his thirties who has lived in Australia  for 14 years escaping Burma because of the same Military persecution that exists there today. The FHE lesson was on the importance of Fasting and Prayer. It started off with the New Testament story of the apostles trying to cast out an evil spirit from a boy and having failed. Jesus came along and cast out  the evil spirit. Later the apostles asked the Savior why they could not do it and Jesus said "This kind can come forth by nothing, but by prayer and fasting." Mark 9: 17-29 One of the YSA, a returned missionary, then told of this experience he had on his mission while serving in Boston, Mass.  A new convert sister of less than a year, and only member in her family, called them one day, and said  her grandfather was gravely ill and would they administer to him. The grandfather had some kind of cancer, and was in tremendous pain and was on a morphine pump that lessens the pain but also put him in a stupor unable to understand or speak.   Her family was very antagonistic toward the church, and had refused her requests to have her grandfather receive a priesthood administration of the sick. Finally after seeing him suffer so much they agreed to have the elders administer to him. The elders agreed to administer to him, but only after a 24 hour fast, in which they did a lot of praying. When they arrived at the hospital the next day, some of the family was in the room with them. The member sister had told them that the elders would use their priesthood power and would heal her grandfather. The YSA  RTM told us that he had the  felt spirit so strongly that he truly felt that the Grandfather would be healed. His companion anointed the grandfather, and then this elder sealed the anointing and was about to say the words to heal the grandfather when the spirit stopped him and then told him through the still small voice, that he was to bless the grandfather that the severe pain would soon leave his body, but that he would die and not be healed, however he would be mentally cognizant for 1 week and then die a week from that day. A sister of the member after hearing this, and expecting her grandfather to be healed, said "What the hell was that?" The elder answered and said "That was what the spirit told me to say." A few hours later the grandfather's morphine pump was cut back, and eventually stopped because it became apparent that he was no longer suffering pain. He became alert and in the next week the family members were able to visit him and essentially say goodbye to him.  He died  exactly 1 week later just as the elder's blessing said he would. The family had the grandfather buried in a town near Boston and asked that the elders attend the funeral which was conducted by a Roman Catholic priest. The family was catholic. At the end of the burial the priest came up to the grandmother and asked if he could be of any spiritual help. The grandmother at that time was standing next to the elder who had given the blessing, and said putting her hand on the elder's shoulder "No thanks we have all the help we need."                                      Love Elder Mac

Happy 4th of July

Hey Family: Not sure if this cute attached message that came from the states, will  bounce back to the states, but see if you can bring up the attachment. We celebrated July 4th, not, because it isn't Australia's indepence day; but yesterday, the 4th in Aussie land, we attended a wonderful district/ zone missionary meeting. Then we taught an Eternal Marriage class and had 6 couples attend and it was fun to see all the participation and hear all the thoughts of these couples. Two of the couples have pregnant wives, and they have each just been married very close to when we came over here, now 12 months ago. Gee, how time flies when you are having fun being worked to death by Elder mac, the workaholic/ churchaholic that he is. Hope you all had a great July 4th. Enjoy the attachment if you can access it. Love, Mom/ grandma mac aka sis mac