Fw: [DPMacFamily] Doug & Pat American surgery schedule

--- On Sun, 3/8/09, mac9pcom mac pherson <mac9pcom@msn.com> wrote: From: mac9pcom mac pherson <mac9pcom@msn.com> Subject: [DPMacFamily] Doug & Pat American surgery schedule To: jtjk.mac@msn.com, mrtsubaki1@yahoo.com, tmbormann@yahoo.com, atsubaki@hotmail.com, fernquist@charter.net, shaunajohns@yahoo.com, kevinmac202@hotmail.com, kristinetx@aol.com, jay.s.macpherson@l-3com.com, rob@ssipeo.com, addiephil@yahoo.com, meganrf@byu.net, ryan.macpherson@us.hjheinz.com, mgiometta@gmail.com, mac4boys@att.net, dpmacfamily@yahoogroups.com, hebormann@zoomtown.com, troynkris@aol.com, mac4twins@msn.com, anniemac@xmission.com, emilymcphrsn@yahoo.com Date: Sunday, March 8, 2009, 9:46 PM HI family & friends: Pat is doing great as far as the PT's (Physical therapists are concerned) but I do struggle sleeping well many nights. But Dad has been thru this before and says, this to will pass. I feel strongly that because of the many prayers of our grandchildren on behalf of my errant knee---the therapy is going exceptionally well. THANK YOU BELOVED GRANDCHILDREN.  I wish I could say, I feel terrific--but I can't--but have hope it will finish/pass sooner than later. Last weekend while up in Michigan--we were blessed to attend the baptisms of Jacob & Makayla (Zach and Lori's twins) and the baby blessing of Spencer (Mariah and Art's now 5 month of baby boy). It was an exceptional weekend--especially Saturday. THere was a special sweet spirit there. We were blessed to have 4 of our sons, one daughter and 20 of our 33 grandchildren there. The weather was generally bitter, but the joy of so much family warmed things up. Even Great-Grandma was able to travel up with us. I had my appointment with the surgeon, last Tuesday, for a final check-up. I have PT twice a week in their office. Dad was with me and talked with the doctor about his hip and Dr. McCarty suggested he have x-rays since he was already there. Upon showing them to us, the doc said Doug's hip was shot--kaput. So, Dad, is now set for hip surgery on Monday, March 16th. He also will have surgery for cataracts at the end of this month. Art had previously said it might be better to use this surgeon we both trust and admire his work--especially the speed of his operations-- means less time under. So, we're both a bigger mess than originally planned on. Also, Art's Dad has a very serious health problem also; that still has to be checked out more, etc. so Art certainly has a full-plate. Will you all be so kind to pray for Doug/ Dad surgeries as well as for Art's Dad; it would be so appreciated. A couple of days ago, it was so nice--I could walk outside with Mariah for a short while. She walked her whole neighborhood and I walked just the easier/shorter part. It felt great. The past several days have been wet, cold and bone chilling to us old timers. We so appreciate the great, kind and loving family that you all are. We miss you. Some of you we haven't been able to see yet and we miss you all the more. Bear with us and we hope and look forward to seeing you as soon as possible. Love you all soooooo much. Love, Mom/ grandma mac/ pat and Doug       __._,_.___ Messages in this topic (1) Reply (via web post) | Start a new topic Messages | Files | Photos | Links | Database | Polls | Members | Calendar Change settings via the Web (Yahoo! ID required) Change settings via email: Switch delivery to Daily Digest | Switch format to Traditional Visit Your Group | Yahoo! Groups Terms of Use | Unsubscribe Recent Activity Visit Your Group Give Back Yahoo! for Good Get inspired by a good cause. Y! Toolbar Get it Free! easy 1-click access to your groups. Yahoo! Groups Start a group in 3 easy steps. Connect with others. . __,_._,___

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year 2009

Belated Merry Christmas & Happy New Year, 2009!-from "Down Under"   We are into the last week of our actual service/ mission among the wonderful Australians we have met with, taught scripture classes and marriage classes too, broke bread with and have grown to love more than I could have ever imagined. We have predominately served among the YSA's (young single adults 18-31++) along the high school age "kids"(aged 14 to 18) and young married adults. One of our YSA's would always remind us, here in Australia, "it's all about food, thus the break bread privilege. Just this Monday night we had several YSA's for dinner at 6 PM, they didn't leave until 11 PM. I remember shortly after we had arrived, I told the CES Coordinator we report to, nobody told us, this would be so much night work. We have been saying goodbye for the past several weeks, as we received invites for dinner; and then it really dawned on me(us), that it was going to be much harder to leave these fun loving, sensitive to the Spirit, warm, kind and so incredibly loving people than I expected or anticipated. At one of our missionary meetings we attend weekly, which generally is with the young 19-21+ year old Elders and Sisters, one of these young Elders commented that if when he returned home, if he was met at the airport with an ambulance to take him to a hospital, he would  know he had worn himself out in his missionary service and that it would be acceptable to the Savior. At another meeting, we heard, that missions are the very least we could do. Well, although, we both feel a bit worn out-we don't think we will need an ambulance—and are just hopeful it won't be a hearse to meet us. JUST KIDDING. We typically would pray daily, especially for these beautiful young people and prayed that by small means, we could help to uplift, encourage and edify them. Don't have to tell any of you, life can be hard and the challenges for young people probably were unimaginable years ago. This week has already been a full-out time with them. Up early, go to bed late, but worthwhile. When we came over here, now close to 18 months ago, it was sooooo hard leaving our family and grandchildren, but we knew we would be going back to them. Here, it is almost harder. We are excited to go home and see two new grandchildren we haven't even held, along with our other beloved thirty one grandchildren. But, as we say these ongoing goodbyes, we are aware as we leave, we may or most probably will never see most of the older people we have met & loved  and even many or most of the young people. We feel, as Aussies are truly world class travelers, we may see some of these choice beautiful young people in the U.S.. Our mission has been mostly good, just as life is mostly good with just a few disappointments and frustrations along the way. Our second son, Rob, his lovely wife, Annie and four grandchildren will fly into Sydney this coming Sunday, Dec. 21st and we are thrilled they will spend an Aussie Christmas with us and we will all travel together. Just recently I read again, having read this statement before: "…not to let those most important things pass you by as you plan for that illusive & nonexistent future when you will have the time to do all that you may want to do. Instead, find joy in the journey-now. What a bittersweet journey this has been in Australia, busy, productive, meeting such wonderful people who are so easy to love and now somewhat bitter leaving them. We wish you a most lovely Christmas with family & friends. A couple of weeks ago, a lady talked about Christmas and gift giving and the fact that as we celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ, He's the only one who doesn't receive gifts. She suggested we think of ways we can give gifts to the Savior:such as services and kindness toward to others. Thus the saying: This is the Reason for the Season.      Love, Elder & Sister MacPherson   aka Doug & Pat

Merry Christmas!

Wishing you a most beautiful Christmas and a Happy New Year! Shame on me, I've already lost several attemps at sending e-mails and the've gotten lost out there in cyber-space. The reality is our e-mail is the next slowest thing to snail mail. Oh how I've missed having high speed internet. I need to let Elder Mac, no high speed internet, no future missions. Actually, if I'd have know prior to our mission, I would have said it then. Hope you and your families are well. Rob, Annie and GRANDCHILDREN will be here in just days now. We are looking forward to seeing family and friends when we return. Love, Mom and Dad, Grandma & Grandpa, Doug and Pat, aka sis & elder mac Recent Activity Visit Your Group 10 Day Club on Yahoo! Groups Share the benefits of a high fiber diet. Everyday Wellness on Yahoo! Groups Find groups that will help you stay fit. Get in Shape on Yahoo! Groups Find a buddy and lose weight. . __,_._,___

Am not totally trunky, but in saying goodbyes, it is tougher than I expected.

Hi beloved family and special friends: ELder Mac and I spoke in two wards today and the members were exceptionally kind with their hugs and gracious things they said. We continue to know that life is indeed bittersweet. I missed our family and friends for longer than I expected to, when we were in the beginning months of our mission/ service. Now I find it is harder again to leave these extremely loving and kind people who really know how to party in church activities. I second guessed each time how bitter it was to leave behind our family (okay, grandchildren for sure). Now I  know  how bitter it is to leave so many of these warm Aussies--pure and simple, because when we left our family & friends behind, we knew we would come back to them/ you. There are some of the young Aussies, that we feel will look us up in their many travels. If you ask an Aussie if they have been to the states, the will many times say yes-- several times and more. Even though our service was mostly  with the seminary and YSA's, the longer we were here the more we got closer to many of the older members. We will have so many sweet memories of the members here. When we were baptized into the church 45+ years ago, it was in a Milwaukee ward. I cried when we moved away, after having our 2nd and 3rd babies there. I remember thinking, I will never meet people as special as the saints were in Milwaukee. By time we left Madison where Doug finished his master's degree--it wasn't as difficult as I KNEW we would be meeting wonderful people as we had known in Milwaukee and then Madison. Well, the church is the same, I believe wherever we go in the world. Wonderful members who are so loving, kind and such kindred spirits, who are the next best to family. I am so grateful for the gospel in our lives; as the gospel totally connects us as brothers and sisters of our Loving Heavenly Father. One of the sister's here who happens to YW President in the first ward we spoke at, came up to me when I was at the back of the church. She is blessed with 4 young children under the age of 8( this sounds like Mariah's life, right?) Anyway sometime in September she asked how soon before we were going home and it took me off guard and I remember thinking, the members have had enough of us. Of course, all the young missionaries are only here for short times and frankly up to  6 months is a long time. Also the young missionaries, even if they stay, may have new companions. Anyway, they've had us in their midst for the whole time, NO TRANSFERS AND NO COMPANION CHANGES! But getting back to this YM president, she is really tall, incredibly slim and actually very beautiful. As she hugged me, she said I always made her feel good or better about herself. She's such a beauty and with a lovely family and then she has an incredible singing voice, I was surprised how I could make her feel any better about her self. But I knew she was being very sincere and it dawned on me, we all deal with certain flaws and shortcomings and need to encourage one another. Even when we think others have it all together, they may not as much as we perceive. Her hug and loving comments sure gave me a boost. Years ago, I came to the conclusion-- really only 3 things really matter in our lives: our relationship with our Heavenly Father and His Son, our beautiful families and great friends. I'm not going to pretend it has been like a bowl of cherries over here all the time, because there were a few difficult times here and there; but just as life is mostly good, so has our mission been. I do KNOW it has been a privilege to serve and it has been the least we can do. Contrast the Savior's mission which was a mission where He did the most he could do perfectly. We have worked diligently and hard, but the blessings have truly been out of this world. Remember the neat saying I believe, by Erma Bombeck, which was; if life is such a bowl of cherries, how come I feel like it's the pitts every so often? At this most special time of the year when we commemorate the birth of the Savior in such humble circumstances, I KNOW that our Loving Heavenly Father sent His beloved Son here and that they each love us more than we can comprehend. May you all have a blessed Christmas and enjoy being with your family's & friends. Love and miss you all, Mom/ grandma mac aka sis mac  Recent Activity Visit Your Group Y! Messenger All together now Host a free online conference on IM. Yahoo! Groups Stay healthy and discover other people who can help. Weight Loss Group on Yahoo! Groups Get support and make friends online. . __,_._,___

Down under is done

12/10/08 Dear friends and family; We are done! No more classes. Last night we had our last Institute class and  many YSA showed up. We are teaching Doctrines of the Gospel and the class was on prayer and its great importance in worshiping God, and there was a great spirit there.    The summer institute class takes a Christmas break that will last until the 2nd week in January. As we leave on the 4th of January, some one else will finish the course, which lasts until the 2nd week in February. Rob and his family come a week from Sunday, and in the interim we have much to do. The mission has decided to keep our flat and move some young missionaries into it. I believe we told you that the church has decided that no more American CES missionaries will be sent to Australia.  They have been advertising for an Australian CES couple but there have been no takers. Though we are done teaching we still have a pre-seminary teachers training  class tonight for the new teachers that will start teaching in Feb. However, the CES coordinator is coming down from Sydney to teach most of it. After that  all there is are the  "goodbye dinners"  we are putting on to have one last ministering shot at some of the YSA who are struggling, and also 3 ward and stake Christmas parties. This is the party & food part of our "CES, Food & Party: mission. Many under estimate the power of food has to draw people closer to the gospel. One of the YSA's who has fallen away and we have only seen once or twice in months, called us yesterday and asked if we were still  going to invite him over for dinner before we left,  as we had promised months ago, when he basically rejected my plea to come back to church. Mom said "We loved to have you over, if you will make your famous Pavlova dessert." He willingly agreed. During this time we have to get ready to leave and be semi packed as we only have 1 day  between when Rob's family leaves and when we leave. This has been a bitter sweet time for us. Gradually saying goodbye to people we will probably never see again. Yesterday we returned from Sydney where we met with ½ the missionaries in the Sydney South Mission in a giant combined Christmas zone conference. We said goodbye to a lot of good young missionaries that we have worked with in the past and who have been transferred outside of Canberra. Some of the YSA have returned home for the summer and many of the adults are going on their month long summer Christmas holiday and we will not see them again. What is sweet is that a lot of people have come up to us and said they will miss us and many have thanked us for our work here. We will take a cruise for 2 weeks starting Jan 4th along the east coast of Australia and then all around New Zealand. We end up in Auckland on Jan. 18th and fly out the same day and arrive at O'Hare Airport 1 hour before we leave as we are a day ahead of you. Could you all please pray that spring comes to Rockford by Jan. 18th, as we have not experienced any snow and real cold for almost 2 years  and would be unable to tolerate it.        Thanks &   Love Elder and Sister  MacPherson

Christmas money for day after Thanksgivng or ? from grandma/ pa mac

Hi Family: hopefully you have all received the Christmas money from our Associated bank account; if for any reason, you haven't received it, please copy back on this e-mail, so we can check it out in a timely manner. Well, we (okay, I will) be preparing Thanksgiving dinner for some of our most special YSA's; unfortunately, I can't find somethings which are fairly typical in the states, but aren't here. As we spent Christmas Eve/ and Christmas day the Aussie way--it was different, as it is fairly hot for Christmas. We will be thinking of you this Thanksgiving and feeling thankful for the wonderful family you all are and the families you are raising bless our lives soooooooooo much. Miss and love you all, love, mom/ grandma mac aka sis mac

Summers just around the corner: December 1st.

HI Family and friends: Just yesterday, Dad, received an e-mail from Ralphi (the ward/ branch clerk- for the singles branch. In the message, Ralphie, sent some gorgeous pictures from the Klemme Arboretum in Rockford to make us homesick and to chastise us for not better planning our mission, as we have already just left our second winter here and will come back to winter in the states.  Somehow the thought of leaving a hot summer here to return to the states reminds me of when we left the states, July of 2007.  We left a hot, hot summer to be in the middle of the Ozzie winter, which is soooo mild compared to what we were used to and will go back to.  But 3rd winter or not, we're getting ready. I was pleasantly surprised as we were returning from something last week, he commented as much as he has liked it here, he's ready to return.   The last e-mail I sent was saying I was really looking forward to a RS rebroadcast of the September RS broadcast with President Uchdorf and it was even better than I expected. They sure know how to have fun at whatever they do. The Saturday rebroadcast meeting started at 10:30 AM with a greeting, a short educational test and dissussion on better nutrition. I think I may have said way back when we first arrived here, I hadn't noticed any really over- weight people. I think we were so pleasantly surprised with all the bike paths and so many bikers (not motocycles) just plain and simple, bikes. You see alot of young guys, but also women, kids, etc. Well, after about a week being here, we started seeing quite a few over-weight people. Apparently, Australians are either just ahead of us as the fattest country in the world or we Americans are the fattest. Gee, that's one thing neither of our countries want or seek for,  that title! Anyway, back to the RS meeting. After the short but sweet educational info/ discussion about healthier eating came the real fun stuff. We have 4 Aussie women aged 25 -maybe 40, who dress in Bollywood/ India clothing and do Bollywood dancing. It was such fun. Then they taught any/ all of us how to do Bollywood dancing from a few teenagers up to the barely able to move. But move they did. I even tried, but I really have a problem with that darn knee and it hurts with those simple movements. Oh darn, can't wait to get that knee fixed. But, in spite of the fact, I couldn't hardly dance; I will remember Kiki (aged 26) teaching by saying Indian women lift their arms/ hands up in the air--then memorably Kiki said it is as if they are saying " look at my lovely arms, love my hands" and then she showed how to dance with the legs and repeated " look at my lovely feet, I love my feet." Even after I recupe, I'll remember her saying look at my beautiful hands, look at my beautiful feet---- and I'm sure I can do it. Yeah, sure. The fun thing to see, was just how happy the sisters were trying to dance, wether they could or not. Everyone had smiles on their faces. After that they had a lovely healthy lunch and we all visited and talked for about 45 minutes. Then we went into the chapel for a lovely singing of a song to a different melody, which I had seen them do before--it gives a different perspective to the way we usually sing a song/hymn. Their was a lovely relaxation thing finishing with a lovely song and then the broadcast. It did last until 2:30 PM (I was amazed how younger moms could be away that long during the middle of the day, like that. I told the stake RS President, I had never seen anything so much fun done in the states; we could learn from them, they are mostly more laid back then we are.   We have now finished the major teaching we had : the Eternal Marriage classes ran from May until Oct. 17th., year long Institute classes on the Old Testament were finished the week after and then we finished the second semester of Pearl of Great Price classes at the two uni's we taught at. As, we taught the last uni class on a Wednesday at UC and then Thursday, at ANU; it was indeed bittesweet to realize that was the end of that part of our mission.  After all the attendance and paperwork was sent into Sydney to make up certificates of completion; we then visted our last early morning seminary class (start time is 6:30 AM) on Friday, October 31st and that was just days from the graduation for Seminary/ Institute on that Sunday, November 2nd. More attendance and paperwork was e-mailed by sis mac for making of scripture mastery and completion certificates as well as the Programme handout. We work with the Stake presidency on this, but we do most of the leg work, the food prep and serving, etc. with our YSA's assisting. It turned out nice; our CES Coordinator from Sydney and his wife came for it. We have our opening social for Institute tomorrow, Nov. 11th and then we will teach 4 classes into December with a final class where we will focus on the Savior and this special time of year- Christmas. That last class will be on December 16th; we then are attending a special Christmas music presentation at the Sydney Opera House- called Christmas at the House on Friday, Dec. 19th and the two older sister missionaries will travel in with us. I had the privilege of taking a tour of the Opera House when Mariah, Art & family were here over Thanks giving last year, and the tour was great; but I'm even more excited and pleased we will be able to see an actual performance in the "House". Our mission President & his wife suggested we attend and any other senior missionaries who want to attend. Some of the senior missionary couples in Sydney have already been able to see some performances as their mission is in Sydney.   Dad isn't knock down excited about this Christmas concert and especially since there will be three of us senior missionary women in his car. Or is it possible, he will fill like he died and went to heaven as he chauffeurs us into Sydney? Last week, I had planned on reciprocating for dinner appointments we had been invited to; so we had a couple in last Tuesday for dinner and a widowed lady and her YSA daughter in for dinner on Wednesday. That was the week, we thought we would slow down a bit and to a degree we had, but that big word BUT... The Monday following the seminary graduation, we both felt like collapsing after our Sdyney CES coordinator came over to our flat, before he and his sweet wife returned to Sydney to discuss what we have planned as we continue to teach and yet finish up and even what to do, should another couple not replace us. That Tuesday following the Sunday graduation, one of our older YSA's called in the morning and said she wanted to stop in for a chat around 11 AM, which she did; we talked and fed her lunch. We had one of our YSA's ask us if we are planning to celebrate Thanksgiving over here and said if we were, would we invite her for dinner. Well, why not; I just love this great YW. With so many of the YSA's not having parents near by, they feel generally pretty comfortable inviting themselves over to eat. Last week Elder Mac let me have a few hours without him to attend a Cirqus Du Soleil with the widow friend later in the afternoon, then she came over for dinner and her daughter came also for dinner. This lovely sister, Sister Loveland had invited us over for dinner on Christmas eve last year and made my Christmas away from family, bearable and had invited us for dinner a couple other Sundays during the past year. So, it was time to thank her by cooking for her. I LOVED the "Dralion-cirqus Du Soleil and feel an addiction to wanting to see some others. The first time I had ever seen a Cirqus Du Soleil was on TV when I was helping out Shauna after her surgery, the year before Mallory was born. I had never seen one before. Our tickets for the live show were side seats and I thought the seats were fine. Then as we were returning from the intermission to our seats, one of the people who help you get seated, said if we would follow him, he would seat us in better seats and better seats they were. How about 2nd row, totally front and center. It was terrific to see everything so upfront and close. To sort of kick back last week finally on Thursday, we drove into Sydney/ Umina beach where we will be staying at the end when Annie, Rob and family are here for Christmas. They will be here, just five weeks from yesterday, on December 21st. Wow, it is so amazing that the time is drawing so near, so quickly. We were able to attend the temple on Thursday night and then the next morning, Friday, and then return to our flat. We were involved in a service project Sat. Nov. 8th from 9AM to 2 PM at a public school. There were about 60- 70 adults who painted the interior of the school and Dad worked outside in the landscaping area and loved it, but is still in pain. I had the easy job, taking care of the younger children, up to about ages 10-12 in the school's gym watching and entertaining 20-25 kids and was worn out when we returned. It is good to be useful, but we will be ready to finish up and return. It has been mostly good to be here; the members are just so loving and fun to be with and around. But, a mission is work, and certainly we're not slackers; but we are getting tired. At our final uni class, it was two young women and a young Chinese convert of about 2+ months and we said that was the last class and the young women said how much they loved attending Institute at their uni's and couldn't we stay longer. One of them said, we see you as grandparents and I haven't ever really had grandparents. I responded,  we see you as grand'kids' and love being with you, but we have 33 grandchildren in the states and they said they understood. We are putting together a final seminary graduation for this coming Sat. night at Nowra, on the south coast. The drive should be beautiful (but scary- thru to very narrow mountain passes. We will drive down Sat. during the day, attend and each speak at this graduation, etc.;like the other one, just smaller and then stay overnight, attend their Sunday meetings the next morning and drive back. It is 3+ hours each way. The South coast is really lovely and I always love visiting with the lovely members in Nowra, it is a small branch and they are always so friendly. We will see a couple of young missionaries who had served in Canberra and now are serving there; we are looking forward to seeing Elder Boyer--he is that sweet young man, who had been a rodeo rider before he hurt himself. We are continuing to go as full out as possible and hope in small ways we have been helpful. We are missing you all so much and now our hearts are happy to return to all of you, who we love soooooo much. Sorry again, this is so long. It is a snap shot of our lives/ service here. We feel blessed and feel the tender mercies of the Lord here. Love, mom/ grandma/ sister/ friend aka sis mac